Tuesday 14 July 2015

Sexual Exploration: Ever Heard of the Finger Blowjob





Things to consider before giving a finger blowjob

Now that you know what the finger blowjob is, here’s what you need to do to get your partner and yourself ready.

#1 Hygiene. Make sure that the person receiving the finger blowjob has clean hands. If you didn’t see them wash their hands, use some sanitizer. I don’t know what it is about sanitizers, but people tend to always ask for some when they see someone else use it.

#2 Willingness. If you can’t handle the idea of sucking a finger, don’t bother trying. It’s not that scary, but some people are reluctant to try it because it’s strange or provocative. The finger blowjob just won’t work if you look at it that way.

#3 Confidence. When you finally decide that you’re ready to do it, make sure that you go hard or go home. A finger blowjob is not effective if you just suck your partner’s fingers without taking advantage of how it will affect them. You need to feel sexy, look sexy and be sexy while giving your finger blowjob. So build up that confidence, and go for it.

#4 Reception. Some people don’t take well to the finger blowjob because it’s not used very often. If your partner seems reluctant to receive one, just tell them that you want to try it once, and see how it feels. It’s also okay to laugh it off if you fail the first time, but really? How the heck can you blow a finger the wrong way?

How to give a finger blowjob

For your reference, we suggest watching the finger blowjob scenes from Cape Fear, Sex Drive, and Scary Movie – and no, these are not porn videos. The scenes depicted are as close to the real thing as possible. You can use those as a reference, or you can use our tips below:

#1 Set the mood. We don’t recommend sucking your partner’s finger while you’re in a Starbucks, unless that’s what you’re into. It’s best to perform this while you’re feeling frisky at random moments or when your partner’s distracted, like when they’re watching TV, playing a videogame or leaving the pot to simmer. It is especially recommended when you’re about to have sex. [Read: How to make a guy horny while sitting next to him]

#2 Project. The finger blowjob is only effective when you look like you’re enjoying it as much as the person you’re doing it to. Admittedly, it doesn’t stimulate the necessary nerve endings, but your goal is visual and tactile stimulation. You’re not doing it to make the other person come. You’re doing it to show them how you’re going make them come.

#3 Start with everything else on the hand, but… Don’t jump on the fingers immediately when you start the finger blowjob. Just like with an ordinary blowjob, you start with a kiss as you work your way down. With the finger blowjob, you should start by licking your partner’s wrist, followed by their palm. We suggest lingering on this one, because it will be mind-blowing for the receiver. And then slowly, but surely, move closer to the fingers and suck on them one by one.

#4 Slow it down. Don’t suck on the fingers as if you’re working on making them climax. Again, there’s no point in doing that. Slow and steady licks and sucks will get you the reaction you’re aiming for – anticipation and arousal.

#5 Amp it up. This is basically the climax of the preview. At this point, you can finally show your prowess with your tongue and cheek pressure. Flick your tongue over their fingertips or swirl it around as you increase the suction. Show them what you plan on doing to other suckable parts of their body by giving them a teaser on their fingers.

#6 Remember to own it. No matter what anyone says, the finger blowjob can improve your sex life to a whole other level. Sex is sex, but add a little kink to it, and you’re golden. Don’t worry about how you look or what your partner is going to think. As long as you like doing it and see how awesome its results are, there’s nothing holding you back from giving your partner a finger blowjob.



It might seem new for those of you who’ve never tried or heard of the finger blowjob, but we promise, it will change the way you look at foreplay. Not only will you learn how to exude your sensuality, you can also show your partner that you have a lot more going for you than what they’re used to in the bedroom.

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